Walking The Walk

Talk is cheap.

Words are plentiful, but deeds are precious.

Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

We’ve all heard the sayings, and we know they’re true.

Most of us want to make a difference in the world and to help our fellow man, but it’s hard. There’s so much that needs to be done, but so little time to do it. It’s ultimately very easy to give lip service to big plans. It’s the follow-through that is trickier.

When you see someone who not only talks the talk, but also puts those words into action, it makes an impression. Those people stand out.

They are walking the walk.

These amazing people are being celebrated by The Advil Relief Initiative. The Advil Relief Initiative seeks to recognize people who use their strength to help provide relief to others. As part of the initiative, a portion of the price of participating Advil bottles will go to Habitat for Humanity International and the Wounded Warrior Project.

That’s a pretty great way for Advil to honor people who are walking the walk. People like my friend Kat Crawford.

Kat is a great friend. She’s also a very talented hair designer. In fact, she happens to be *my* hair designer. (Note: If you’ve seen me out and about with my hair a mess, it’s not her fault! Kat is fantastic. I’m just kind of lazy in the day-to-day glamour department.)

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Kat is one of those people who is easy to like. She’s warm and friendly, and really, really funny. I look forward to every appointment I have with her, not just because she will have me looking fantastic, but because it’s a real joy to spend time talking to her. Sometimes I laugh so hard from her stories other clients look over and want in on the fun! She’s just that kind of person.

She’s also the kind of person who cares deeply for others. A few years ago, she knew she wanted to do something-something to serve others and to make a difference in their lives. She felt called into action by her strong faith and beautiful heart.

But what could one young woman with a talent for hair design do to make a difference? It turns out a lot.

Kat founded an organization called Soul 139.

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The concept is simple, yet revolutionary. At Soul 139 their mission is to pamper and empower those less fortunate than us. Men, women, and children who have no means to pay to have their hair professionally cut, are welcomed into a salon and spend some time being cared for and being the center of attention.

These are folks who are going through a hard time. They have sought help from various relief organizations. Some are homeless. Many haven’t had professional haircuts in a long time-even years. Most haven’t had the feeling of someone pampering them in a long, long time.

You know how great you feel when you come home from the salon? You walk out feeling awesome and ready to take on the world (and totally hoping you run in to everyone you know). Well, Kat and the other awesome hair designers who volunteer for Soul 139 are giving that feeling to people who *really* need it. For some of them, it’s been years since they felt that kind of confidence.

But it’s about so much more than the hair.

Having your hair done is an intimate thing, a personal thing. Someone has their attention and energy focused completely on you. They are talking to and physically touching you. They are making a connection with you.

Often times when people hit a really rough patch and find themselves struggling, they feel so alone and disconnected from the rest of society. They feel marginalized and low. People don’t look them in the eye. They feel like an “other”, not part of the community.

At Soul 139 they are telling people, one chair at a time, that they matter. They are special and are worthy of being cared for and served. They count. They are not “other”. They are one of us.

When a guest comes to a Soul 139 event, they are matched with a SOUL Mate-a volunteer who accompanies the guest throughout the event and develops a relationship with them. They talk and laugh. They follow up afterward with personal notes, prayers, and encouragement for each guest, too.

Does a connection like this really make a difference in someone’s life? Let’s see…

Kat works on her feet every day. This is no small thing, as any of you who have ever worked on your feet know. But it’s even more amazing because Kat has had several foot surgeries over the years. At times she has been in a lot of pain. Instead of taking her free time to put her feet up as 99.9% of the population would do, she uses her talents and free time to make a difference in the lives of other people.

Kat is the very definition of walking the walk…even when her feet are tired.

If you’d like to find other fantastic people like Kat who are making a difference in the lives of others every day, just follow @ReliefinAction on Twitter and Instagram and like Advil® on Facebook. You can even share your own photos of Relief in Action using the hashtag #ReliefinAction. Visit http://www.advil.com/reliefinaction to learn more.

We are participating in a sponsored campaign hosted by Advil® as part of the Advil® Relief in Action campaign. Wereceived compensation for this post. While all opinions stated are our own, we make no claims about Advil® as a product or its effectiveness.

 

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Walking The Walk — 87 Comments

  1. I did the social media campaign for this. However, I loved learning about Kat. She sounds like a remarkable woman for sure. Thank you for sharing her story.

    • Kat is truly amazing. It makes me tear up just thinking about all the good she does in the world. 🙂

  2. Wow, what an incredible story! Kat is such an inspiration. Thanks for sharing with us!

    • She really is an inspiration! She’s also the most humble person you could meet. She’s just the best!

  3. Wow. Just wow. The power of one person, changing the world, never ceases to amaze me. That video brought chills and then tears. Thank you for sharing this! Kat is one amazing woman and has certainly inspired me! How lucky you are to know her.

    • Oh, I was sobbing when I first saw that video. Just thinking about it is bringing tears to my eyes. One person can make a difference in the lives of so many. It’s true. 🙂

  4. Loved learning about Kat today, because it is people like her that make me know that good still exists. So nice to hear her, as well as this campaign during this time of the year. Thanks for sharing ladies!! 🙂

    • You hear so many bad things about the world. If you watch the news you probably never want to leave your house! But there are good people out there who serve others. All is not lost!! 🙂

  5. I want to be friends with Kat too!! Wow!! So many awesome things. The charity she founded is brilliant and I know it will help so many people. I am amazed that she still stands to do her work after all those surgeries! That just shows her passion and dedication to her craft. Thank you for sharing her wonderful story with us!

    • You’d love Kat, Nellie! She is a hoot!! She really is a marvel in all she does. I am a bad glamour ambassador in general, but she is SO talented!

    • Exactly, Stephanie!!! We need many more stories of people lifting each other up!! 🙂

  6. So powerful there is a guy I read that gives homeless people haircuts and all he asks is for a hug. I love concepts like these and must find out more.

    • Yes! It really makes you realize that all of us have talents or skills that we can use to help others! We just need to do it! 🙂

  7. I loved hearing about Kat and Soul 139. That is so wonderful. We can all do our part to make a difference…when you hear stories like this, it’s truly inspiring!

    • That’s it exactly, Michelle. Kat makes me feel inspired to get out there and make a difference, too!! 🙂

  8. Well now I’m crying but in the best of ways. Thanks so much for sharing Kat’s story. It’s so important to remember that we can all do seemingly small things every day that make a difference in somebody’s outlook on life.

    • Me too, Kristi! Just thinking about it has me tearing up again! Making a difference in someone’s life, even in just a small way, can end up being big. 🙂

  9. I just love this post so much. It brought me to tears. God Bless the people in the world like Kat. love you ladies!

    • Aw! Thanks, Alexa! The world is a better place with people like Kat! That’s for sure!

  10. I am crying!!! Thanks for introducing us to Kat, what she and the other people who participate in this great organization are doing is amazing. I can only imagine how healing having a little bit of pampering must feel when you are going through a tough time. Every day I hear things in the media that can make the world seem so mean to people who are having a hard time, this story made my day!! Thanks!

    • The first time Kat told me about Soul 139, I was just floored. What they are doing is just amazing. They are really making a difference. It’s just so moving and beautiful!

  11. Kat sounds amazing! Something as simple as a hair cut from a professional stylist can make a huge difference in someone’s life. I work in the substance abuse treatment field quite a bit. A haircut and that extra attention helps the women feel worthy and confident enough to go out and find jobs, etc. I wonder if you could email me Kat’s info so I could contact her about a future Philanthropy Friday?

    • Yes!! How exciting, Jennifer! I’ll definitely get you Kat’s contact information. Soul 139 a perfect fit for Philanthropy Friday! 🙂

  12. Wow what a story! You must be so proud to call her a friend. I can’t imagine what that wonderful post-haircut feeling could do for someone in a tough time. It might not going to change thier life overnight, but it’s doing something! I love it!

    • Oh, I’m so proud to be Kat’s friend! 🙂 I think the personal contact and knowing that someone else finds you worth of pampering and care is just so powerful. 🙂

  13. I did the social media campaign for this as well, and I loved reading about so many people making a difference for others. It truly is a wonderful thing to give. Kat sounds completely awesome!

    • Exactly, Jennifer! It’s so inspiring to read about people who are making a difference in the world.

  14. I just got chills reading about Kat’s mission and I get it! After hitting a bit of an emotional rough patch this week, where am I headed tomorrow? The salon. And I know how lucky I am to be able to afford to do this.

    • Yes! That’s it exactly, Ilene. You’d love Kat, Ilene. Like you, she just exudes goodness. You guys are both also super funny and have good hair. You’re like twinsies.

  15. What an incredible story!! Kat sounds like an amazing person and is touching so many lives - both physically by doing their hair and emotionally!
    Thank you for sharing about this program - it would be awesome if it took off all over the country!

    • I could not agree more!! It would be so amazing for Soul 139 to reach across the US!! There is need everywhere!!

  16. One word. Heartwarming. What a wonderful, wonderful person Kat must be. You and the folks touched by her and Soul 139 are very blessed indeed. Thank you for sharing her story.

    • I do feel *very* blessed to know Kat. She and all the awesome volunteers who work with her are touching many lives through Soul 139.

  17. That’s a wonderful thing your hairdresser is doing. Everyone can use a confidence boost. Feeling good about yourself is the first step in a positive direction.

    • Feeling good about yourself is key. It’s hard to get on your feet without that, isn’t it! Sometimes it just takes one thing to turn your outlook around. Feeling loved and cared for makes all the difference in the world!

  18. Love this! My family gets together right after Christmas to decide on what charities to donate money to. I’d like to bring this to their attention. We have a good time learning about the organization, then make a presentation to family and vote on how much to give. Where can I get current financial statements to learn more about this great group?

    Kat sounds so compassionate!

  19. Wow! What an amazing person. I love that she’s using her free time not only to help those less fortunate but also to tell them about Jesus’ love! Very inspiring.

    • Bwahahahaha! Go Kat!! (Don’t worry, Stacey. I can’t jump anymore either. I’d be lucky to get an inch! You and I will just have to LOOK peppy!) 😀

  20. What an absolutely amazing story! I loved reading about Kat and the kindness she is bringing into this world. She is a shining star! After reading this, I feel inspired. This is something I want to do. I want to leave people feeling a little better. I want to make the world a little better for everyone. I’m definitely going to check out what other people are doing for Relief in Action.

    • Now *you* are making me tear up, Kristen!! I want to make the world a little better, too! I know we can! 🙂

  21. Loved hearing about this wonderful project! It is so great to see people using their talents and gifts to help others.

    • So true!! We’ve all got talents and gifts to use to help others, we’ve just got to do it! 😀

  22. Oh geez. I am crying here. Kat is wonderful. Scarlet is asking me why I’m crying while watching a video of hair. She will certainly understand it one day.

    • Aw!! I cry every time I watch that video. It doesn’t matter how many times I see it. Scarlet is so cute. My kids see me cry when I’m reading things on the computer so often (I’m a water works kind of girl) it doesn’t even phase them anymore!

  23. I love this campaign and her part in it. Amazing. I agree having someone dote attention on you makes a world of difference. Beautiful heart and beautiful cause.

    • “Beautiful heart and beautiful cause” YES! Exactly. I love how you put that, Angel! 🙂

  24. Chills… numbing sensations… Thank you for sharing Kat’s story… XO, Dose Girls. ~A~

    • We felt so fortunate and happy to be able to share Soul 139 with everyone! Thanks, Amber!! 🙂

  25. What a heart of gold! Kat really does walk the walk - such a kind and loving gift she is giving to the guests served by Soul 139. Thank you for sharing this amazing story.

    • She really does, Mo. And on top of that, she just does it so humbly and quietly. She never seeks to shine a light on herself, only on those she serves. She’s amazing! 🙂

  26. The way you described Kat, she seems beautiful inside and out and passes it along to those in need. Thanks for sharing her story and her mission!

    • That’s it exactly, Gracielle! Her story and mission are so inspiring! We want everyone to know about Soul 139!

  27. How amazing! I wish Kat success with her organization. The interview from the client made me cry. I just have no words. What a blessing to the world.

    • That interview made me cry, too, Carli! Kat is out there doing good in the world! 🙂

    • Thanks so much, Dawn! We want everyone to know about Soul 139 and the great work they are doing! 🙂

  28. “Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.” Is one of my all time favorite quotes. You can’t say it any better than that. Soul 139 sounds like such an AMAZING idea!!!!! You should be proud to have a friend who came up with it… you’re surrounded by good people! 🙂

    • Exactly, Amanda! It’s easy to talk the talk, but it’s special to find people like Kat who actually put their beliefs into action like she has with Soul 139. I’m continually amazed by all she does to help others!

  29. Well if that just doesn’t make me feel cheap and lame! Honestly, it’s so good to see people donating their time and talents for good causes.

    • You are so right. We see so many awful things on the news that sometimes you can start thinking that’s all there is. But no. Good people doing good things still exist! 🙂

  30. Tears…. oh my…. I can’t even imagine all the souls this precious woman has blessed by her being GOD’S hands and feet in caring for so many people that are facing adversity. THIS is amazing. I love love love HER MISSION and her WALKing the WALK.

    I am praying for God to provide all she needs to continue her ministry and shine God’s Light in the hearts of some broken depleted hearts.

    Thanks so much for sharing this powerful testimony that ONE person can change lives…. BRAVO!!

    • Well now your beautiful comment has me in tears, Chris! You such a wonderful way with words! Love you sweet friend!!

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